人际 · SocietySociety
人情世故，先懂边界Relationships — know the boundaries
面子、红包、称呼——这些软规则，比明文规定更影响你的人际关系。Face, red envelopes, titles — the unwritten rules that shape daily relationships.
人际Society面子、红包、称呼——这些软规则，比明文规定更影响你的人际关系。Face, red envelopes, titles — the unwritten rules that shape daily relationships.
人际Society给人留面子、讲人情很重要；公开批评、让人难堪是大忌。Saving face and reciprocity matter; public criticism is a serious misstep.
红色信封装钱，春节、婚礼、生日常见；数字避"4"，喜"6""8"。Red packets for festivals and weddings; avoid "4", favor "6" and "8".
钟（终）、梨（离）、伞（散）、绿帽都别送；鲜花数量避开 4 支。Avoid clocks, pears, umbrellas, green hats; skip four of anything.
张工、李总、王经理——带职衔称呼更稳妥；直呼其名仅在熟人间。Use titles like Engineer Zhang or Boss Li; first names are for close circles.
关系靠长期经营，不必急于"搞人脉"。真诚、守时、懂礼数，已经赢了一半。Relationships build slowly. Sincerity, punctuality and basic courtesy already win half the game.